Sweetheart Table vs. Traditional Head Table: What's Right for Your Wedding at The Farmstead?

When it comes to your wedding at The Farmstead, one of the design choices we’ll ask you to make is what type of head table you prefer to have. The head table is where you and your partner will share your first meal together as newlyweds, and it’s an important moment in the celebration. Should you go for the classic traditional head table or opt for a more intimate sweetheart table?

Both options have their perks, so let’s break down the differences to help you decide which one feels right for your celebration at The Farmstead.

The Sweetheart Table: A Cozy, Intimate Vibe

A sweetheart table is all about you two. It’s a small, private table just for the newlyweds, placed front and centre so everyone can still see and celebrate you. This setup offers a relaxed, intimate vibe—just the two of you can focus on each other, soak in the moment, and enjoy a quiet meal while everyone else mingles.

Why Choose a Sweetheart Table?

  • More Personal: It’s just the two of you, making it a great chance to have a quiet, meaningful moment together amidst all the excitement of your wedding day.

  • Beautiful for Photos: A sweetheart table can be a beautiful setting for capturing the intimacy of the moment.

  • Flexibility with Seating: Since the table is just for you two, your wedding party can be seated at other tables, allowing for more flexibility in their seating arrangements, allowing them to be seating with their family or significant other.

  • Less Crowded: If your wedding is on the larger size, we have found that the sweetheart table allows for a more spacial layout of guest tables at our venue.

The Traditional Head Table: A Celebration with Your Crew

The traditional head table, on the other hand, is a more classic choice. This table typically seats the wedding couple, along with their wedding party. It’s a great option if you want to be surrounded by your closest friends and family as you celebrate your new life together.

Why Choose a Traditional Head Table?

  • Celebration with Your Wedding Party: The head table is perfect for couples who want to share the spotlight with their wedding party. If your wedding party is close-knit, it can feel special to all be seated together.

  • Traditional Feel: If you’re looking for a more classic, traditional vibe, a traditional head table brings a timeless, formal touch to your reception.

  • More Interaction: With a traditional head table, you can chat, share laughs, and participate in the excitement with your wedding party during dinner.


At the end of the day, there’s no right or wrong answer—it’s all about what feels best for you as a couple! Whatever your preference may be, we offer a range of furniture options to create the perfect layout for your wedding day. At The Farmstead, the natural beauty of our venue makes for the perfect backdrop to a romantic sweetheart table or traditional head table.

Once you’ve decided on your head-table preference, that is a great starting point for our coordinator to work on supplying you with some floor plan layout options. We can also explore the idea of your florist adding personal touches, like a gorgeous hanging floral backdrop.

So, which will it be: the intimate sweetheart table or the traditional head table with your closest friends? Either way, it’ll be a moment you’ll cherish forever. We can’t wait to help make it unforgettable at The Farmstead!

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